As women, we are often rated by our physical attributes. Why? Have you ever heard two men discussing that they have cellulite, or that their thighs are too fat? Why should you? Have you ever questioned why our lives are wasted with angst over parts of our bodies? Why does it make us feel good if someone says we have great legs?
Why are we reduced to this?
Or how about this?
Yes, I have a behind and breasts just like you… and?
Why must I be reduced to an object for your gaze and my passive submission?
I am a WHOLE person not reducible to my 'assets'. I am the sum of my parts. Men are not rated according to their physical attributes, therefore, why should I accept anything less?